I tend to be more of a grudge holder. When I believe someone’s done me wrong, I hold on to a grudge like there’s no tomorrow, as though I’ll punish the offender into deep regret and remorse and they’ll never cross me again. Except, that’s not usually how it works.
I believe that love really does trump hate, and that if we can all focus on being proactive instead of reactive, on fighting for what we believe in instead of protesting what we don't, perhaps we can stem the tide of division and animosity that seems to be washing over this country. If the government isn't going to step up and set a good example, then it's up to each of us.